rather than instead of

    fend for oneself look after oneself 照料自己，自行谋生

    aside from besides， apart from 除…以外

    long for desire （to have ）sth. strongly 渴望

    take pride in fell please and happy because of 为…而感到得意

    store up put away for future use 储存，储备

    pride oneself on regard as a special reason for pride or satisfaction 以……自豪

    make the/one's point prove that sth. is true 证明一个论点

    in particular especially

    at work busy at a job； doing work

    one the whole considering everything； in general

    work off get rid of， dispose 除去，清除