我们中的一些人不愿意寻求帮助，因为我们认为我们的请求给别人带来了负担。具有讽刺意味的是，我们可能会错过一个向别人展示我们如何重视和尊重他们的机会。了解你并对你有好感的人通常都很乐意帮助你。\nSome (of us) are uncomfortable asking for help || because we believe | that our request places burdens on the other person.\n[Ironically], we may be missing an opportunity to show others | how we value and respect them.\nPeople (who know you and think [well] of you) are [often highly] motivated to helpSome of us are uncomfortable asking for help because we believe that our request places burdens on the other person. Ironically, we may be missing an opportunity to show others how we value and respect them. People who know you and think well of you are often highly motivated to help.